Tips for Women Spanking Men as Dom
Spanking is the most sought-after domestic discipline punishment. Are you a woman considering punishing your man through a spanking? Doing this is simple to learn and do. It also has a strong impact on your man. No matter how strong and big he is, spanking will efficiently send a note to him. It is safe. No grave injury will be imposed.
After all, we never like to do anything that will injure your man. It will be extremely painful and remind him that he is not in complete control.
Spanking Your Man 101: How to Begin?
Keep in mind that every spanking is done on a bare bottom. Even a thin pair of underwear lowers the efficacy of your efforts. Further, a bare bottom is much more embarrassing. You can pull your man's pants and underpants down or have him strip for punishment.
Average spankings are typically done over the spanker's lap. That can be with your man draped across your lap, or you can sit on a chair. If you or your man is too large for this, you can try on the bed while he lies across your lap.
Generally, Lion is spanked with him while lying over the bed's edge with his legs hanging to the floor. Meanwhile, Mrs. Lion (you) also sits or stands next to him. You could have your man lie over a pile of pillows. Doing this is an efficient and practical way of stretching his skin and make it simpler to reach each inch.
One thing to remember: restrict your attention to his butt's lower half and halfway down the back of these thighs.
Those sections are well padded and could deal with your hardest hits. Make sure you don't hit higher on your man's bottom. Make sure you also stay away from his tailbone. You could injure your man once you hit it.
Hands-Off: Great Tools for Spanking Your Man
Bear in mind that you cannot do an efficient disciplinary spanking through your hand. Your hand will hurt more than your man's bottom when you try. Most women consider hairbrushes as spanking tools. However, that is very light to punish a full-grown man efficiently.
A wood paddle is a perfect object to do the job for you. You only need one. Chances are, your man will gift you some paddles. Hence, you could end up with a collection, as Lion has built up more than a dozen.
You see, it is a good thing to invest in a good paddle. It is much safer than improvised tools or objects, not to mention it will be simpler for you to control.
Secrets to Know on How to Spank Your Man Properly
It will take a long time for a woman to learn the most efficient way to spank Lion. Given that they had loved play spankings, Mrs. Lion is now anxious that a spanking would feel the same.
You should realize that a play spanking extremely hurts and could be as serious as a reprimand. However, it's done with a gradual buildup to let Lion's body build the endorphins, translating the pain and ache into pleasure.
That's the last thing that must take place in a spanking. The initial reasoning was to begin the spanking with hard swats and keep them going. But unfortunately, Lion would roll out of the way only after a few of those hard swats.
As the dominant partner, you need to know that your man was not trying to get out of punishment. His body would not let him stay there. The concept was for him to think of spanking position and remain there until his punishment was complete.
After finding the best tips from experienced women spankers and performing various experiments, a method was created, making it possible for men to remain in place while giving the most unpleasant spanking.
The Proper Way to Do a Spanking: How Women Should Do It
1. Your man needs a chance to allow his body to accept that he's being slapped. Mrs. Lion begins with ten rather mild swats to a region on the lower part of his left butt cheek. You can direct all of them to the same region.
2. Wait for at least ten seconds and do the same on your man's right butt cheek. You can hit just hard enough to make your man squirm a bit and maybe a soft yelp. Remember that you do not want your mind to like it.
3. Wait again for another ten seconds and go back to his left butt cheek. Ten more swats to one side of the first group. You need to make these swats a bit harder. If he does not react strongly, you can hit much harder on the right side. This time, you can pause for five seconds between checks.
4. You don't need to stop between groups after a few groups of ten one every check. Cover the whole bottom of his rear end. Pay close attention to the spot where there's a crease between the upper thighs and bottom. That spot must be the reddest.
5. You like his bottom to be an even, dark red with some spots of white. That would take nearly five minutes of work to make. Once you accomplish this, it is time to make the spanking more memorable.
6. You can hit once very hard with a paddle in the middle of his sit spot on one butt cheek. Your man will probably scream and begin to roll away.
Getting Turned on While Spanking Your Man
Many men and a few women think that doing a spanking must be sexually arousing. Many disciplinary women do not enjoy punishing their men. When they begin, most feel bad for hurting somebody they love.
However, Mrs. Lion experienced that way. She continued as she understood that's what Lion likes. In the long run, she stopped feeling terrible about hurting him. She does not like beating him, but she does not feel bad as well.
You see, spanking your man is part of being a disciplinary partner. It's a skin you build as you understand to help your man become a better man. As you master that skill, your man benefits by becoming more secure and happier.